As you get older there seems to be a series of expectations for your life set by society.  It’s as if there is a task list with deadlines to be ticked off as you go.  Maybe you are familiar with this list.  It reads: Get into a long-term relationship Get engaged Get married Have a kid Have another kid Have one more kid (but only if your first two are of the same sex.  If you already have a boy and a girl stop after step 5) Once you have embarked on task #1 the deadlines start.  Don’t worry, society will let you know when the deadline a getting close. …